Most gentlemen think that companions only care about the money, but the truth is much more nuanced. After many conversations with experienced companions, here is what they really want from a client.
Start With Respect
A good client starts with respect. A polite and friendly first message makes a huge difference. Starting with "Hi, how are you?" instead of jumping straight into rates or explicit requests is highly appreciated.
Punctuality Matters
Punctuality is extremely important. Arriving on time or even a few minutes early shows that you value her time. Every minute you are late is a minute taken from her — and from your experience together.
Hygiene Is Non-Negotiable
A fresh shower, clean clothes, brushed teeth, and a pleasant scent are the bare minimum that every companion expects. It shows self-respect and respect for her.
Be Present in Conversation
Good conversation and genuine presence matter a lot. You don't need to be the most interesting man in the world — just be present, listen, ask questions, and make her feel like a real person, not just a service.
Clear Communication
Clear communication before the meeting helps everything go smoothly. Being honest about what you want and what you expect avoids awkward moments later. There are no surprises when both people are aligned.
Small Gestures Go a Long Way
Small thoughtful gestures make her feel special — flowers, her favourite wine, or a sincere compliment can turn a good date into a great one. These small acts signal that you see her as a person worth impressing.
The Bottom Line
Treat her with respect and genuine appreciation, and she will naturally want to make the experience better for you. The best encounters are those where both people feel valued.